Romeo's Love Letters – The Guide to Text and Online Game
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Romeo's Love Letters – The Guide to Text and Online Game
Romeo, Son of Montague, Verona Seducer of Juliet and many other women since!
Table of Contents Introduction .................................................................................................................................... 2 Background Information ................................................................................................................. 3 Characterising The Ultimate Profile ................................................................................................ 5 6 Pillars of Text and Online Sarging ................................................................................................ 6 Concluding Statement ..................................................................................................................... 9
Introduction In 2009, I entered the world of Pick Up as an AFC with absolutely no skills, no direction and my Rosaline had friend zoned me and I was, her bitch. While I finally took action to change in 2006, it was not until 2010 that I undertook a Neurolinguistic Programming course to reshape how I perceive and hence frame sets. Deviating from NLP, I undertook the equivalence of a sabbatical where I lived the life projected in the film, 'Fight Club.' I learned the rules on how to survive and made plenty of mistakes, learning immeasurable lessons along the way. Fast forward to 2017, I'm no longer the AFC and it's almost nostalgic and cringe worthy! Today, I can gladly say that I'm satisfied with who I am and how far I've come. I am no longer restricted and hindered by presumptions. As an Australian, I've conquered the clubs of New York, Rio de Janeiro, Oslo, Moscow, Hong Kong and most recently Ibiza and it is amazing. Now, for those who are interested in how to conquer the hottest clubs of the world, I invite you to read my introductory guide to Pick Up, from approaches, openers and so on, until closing. It is what the Mystery Method should have been! Mystery is a great pioneer of pick up, however, as a widely travelled veteran who has seen it evolve from underground material, to cave manning to heavy nagging to what it has evolved to now, a lot of principles have changed particularly if you are relatively new to the game of attraction. Unfortunately, while Mystery explains how to DHV status in a club, there are significant shortfalls in other important areas such as framing and dynamically controlling the interaction. These areas that are important for AFCs who are interested in working towards being consistently successful. The guide is called, 'How I closed Juliet' and is currently being edited for spelling and grammatical errors.
Background Information I recently undertook a boot camp in Sydney where after a great night of sagging in King
Cross, one of the attendants pulled me aside to ask how to improve his text and online game. As a result, I spent the next afternoon delivering what seems like an exhaustive seminar on text and online game. As I sit in the International terminal of Sydney airport about to board an airplane to Hong Kong, I decided to convert and condense the discussion into a guide. This guide is designed for one and only one purpose – To impart the principles required to develop intense attraction from girls using text and online game tonight. That's right, it'll take one or at most two hours to simultaneously read through and digest the material and build the profile. Therefore, you can immediately set up an account and wait for results. Think of this guide as the text and online version of direct game. It is as intense as the apocalypse opener with just as much potential. Are you ready? So, this guide is arranged to discuss when text and online game is appropriate, the best current sites for online dating, the main characteristics of a great profile and the principles behind online surging.
When is Text and Online Game Appropriate? The answer is whenever! The philosophy which I impart in my seminars is to maximize sagging. If you are unable to sage due to work or family or friends, then online sagging is one way to passively sage. With a properly constructed profile, that is one which conveys who you are to the core, you will be able to attract women.
Best Sites for Online Dating From my experiences in 2017 to 2019, I've found that the best current sites for online gaming are Friend Finder and WantU based on the responses. Other sites such as BeNaughty.com and ones I mention in at the end of the guide offer some good responses but place a lot of emphasis on trying to highlight your traits. I believe it is counterintuitive by using the question, 'Do you prefer women with shaved legs or not shaved?' Having studied the sociology behind these algorithms, your responses will then classify you as sexist or bogan. I found that it is instead more effective to let the babes decide for themselves which suits our purpose all the more.
By all means, register for as many dating sites as possible however; begin with Jucydate and IWantU as both will provide rewarding responses.
Cumulative
1 Day
First Week
First Month
First 6 Months
Total JuicyDate
12
25
85
328
5 5 12 8
29 5 15 9
110 10 18 15
557 30 43 46
BangLocals
UgetLaid hookups USdates
Above is a summary of my experiences from fve dating profles that I maintain on a regular basis. It took a while to retrospectively record the details so use this goldmine appropriately. As you can see, JuicyDate delivers a better response than all except for BangLocals. The hookup site provided some good responses until I flled out my profle questionnaire upon which the interest, declined. ugetlaid is quite good but did not deliver as many as the rest probably for similar reasons. Also note that there was no interest from Day 2 to Day 7 on udates. Generally with some and Other, less is better but fill some questionnaires out to appear involved as it might increase interest. Usdates an inclusion because while it provided some opportunities this was far from the top. Banglocals had plenty of leads and grew faster than juicy dates.
Characterising The Ultimate Profile There are two defning aspects of a great profle, an honest to earth profle picture and a profound introduction. Ultimately, your profle should refect your purpose for online dating which is to either meet new people or to bring her over. Personally, I've used online dating for both purposes. It is important to distinguish why you are using sites like these, WantU and so on because if you're seeking a casual fing, cocky and funny are traits that distinguish you from the horde of AFCs and these traits will build attraction for you. Alternatively, if you are seeking a relationship, then honesty and security, specifically being self-secure are important traits that should be conveyed. Similarly, when selecting a profile picture, these traits should be kept in mind. For instance, if you were looking to for a sexual partner, you would aim to emphasize bold tones of adventure and discovery with photos of you in the great outdoors or playing a soccer game. Alternatively, if you are seeking a relationship, consider a photo of you cooking at a dinner party or at a barbecue. I've listed a number of traits below which are attractive and embody the persona for attraction however, the best traits are ones derived from brainstorming traits based on what purpose it is that you want.
Cocky Selective Understanding Honest Unpredictable Secure BUT Vulnerable (A Slippery Slope)
6 Pillars of Text and Online Sarging
1.) Flipping openers Openers is diffcult but can be overcome. Some dating sites such as Plenty of Fish and OkCupid
have functions where by surfng from profle to profle, the profle owner may be informed of your visit resulting with you being perceived as needy. It is one of the reasons why I advocate thisonesite and thisone instead. Therefore, construct an outstanding profile and wait for the girls to be attracted. Remember, online or text game should be an adjunct to your normal routine, not your entire routine. If you find a particular profile interesting however, don't hesitate to use situational openers. For instance, if the HB's profile states she likes swimming, ask her if she's been bitten by a fish before while swimming. For some weird reason, girls are frightened by sea creatures swimming by them whenever they wear bikinis. Why wear bikinis then? I digress. The main point is to be memorable with your openers. Aim to create bubbles between the both of you using nicknames, or relationships. For instance, compare the HB to the sweet girl next door you knew as a kid. The tom boy, the sweet heart and make it cheeky. By creating a bubble between the both of you, it will serve as a reminder of who you are. Form openers that is congruent with who you are because lets face it, the aim of online and text sagging to get a date and to escalate to sex. She will do neither if you are incongruent throughout the interaction.
The main points are to - Construct an outstanding profile - Use Situational Openers - Create a Bubble, a relationship between you and the HB - Be as congruent as you can be.
2.) Keep It Simple Stupid. Emphasize Quality over Quantity.
The longer the text, the more difficult it is to follow because by the time the girl has finished reading the sentence, she's wondering where it started and therefore you lose the profound meaning behind your statements. Keep texts short and ideally impregnated with meaning. See the difference between the opening and second sentence? It's powerful when used in tandem. In Australia, we have a brand of cookies, Arnott's whose logo elegantly describes this principle: There is no substitute for quality. Remember it!
The main point is There is no substitute for quality. It is THAT important!
3.) Cocky and Funny In online sarging, it is challenging to stand out from others especially since a lot of body language is omitted. Studies have indicated that only 7% of meaning is conveyed through words in an ordinary interaction. In online sarging and text, that 7% expands to 90%. To maximise the impact of your profle, it is important to be outstanding and one method is to be cocky, funny and exciting. Most women on dating sites are usually approached by men after men, in fact, one of my girlfriends told me she was messaged by 20 guys in an hour period and most were supplicating to her. The most important fact to remember is that you are qualifying the HB and not the other way around! Build a unique identity differing from the masses of AFCs who message her. The main way to achieve this is to keep in mind that online and text sagging is an adjunct to your routine instead of the sole method of meeting women. It takes guts to be different and utilize emoticons to create profound meaning and guide the HB to your intended interpretation(s) especially interpretations that define your personality. If possible, bold your statements italicize sarcastic tones and underline important and meaningful comments. Another method to integrate sarcastic tones into a conversation is to temporarily mirror the HB's style of text. The bigger the difference between your style and hers will drive the sarcastic tones when you mirror her language. This can build up tension, even across technology however, as a word of warning, the more mirroring is used, the less sarcasm is evoked and instead, you are more likely to build up small amounts of rapport.
The main point is -
You are QUALIFYING the HB!
4.) Grammar and Spelling Grammar and spelling are unbelievably important. If you are blundering on a medium that has spell
and grammar check, it would seem to indicate that you are uneducated or a try hard so put effort into your spelling. Remember, There is no substitute for quality!
Spelling mistakes are juvenile!
5.) Be a Challenge Recall when I wrote that 90% of the meaning in a text or online game is conveyed through text? The other 10% depends on your availability. If you are constantly available, it conveys to the HB that you place a lot of value on online gaming which is not attractive. Therefore, use time constraints such as, 'I've got to go in a few.' This places pressure on her and makes your demands such as, 'what's your number?' more reasonable. Also, don't always reply immediately to a text. Prolong the response time either because you have something more important to do or fake it. Being online 100% of the time on a dating website is not attractive because it begs the question – does this guy work? Does he live at home with his parents? Does he spend 100% of the time looking to get laid? Those are questions that will inevitably run through the HB's mind. Ideally the question that should be running through her mind should be, 'When is he coming back on?' 'What does he do in his free time?'
See main point no. 3!
6.) Test for IOI's IOIs are important when escalating the conversation to an actual date or a number close. It can prevent resistance from developing. Therefore, to test for IOI's, stop contact with her and wait to see if she re-initiates. If she does, it is an indicator of interest. However, if she does not contact, don't fret; after all, she might be busy. If however, a couple of days elapse, then text her back to create a new conversation, driving it with strong openers.
The main point is Test for IOIs to determine level of attraction!
Concluding Statement Why do we Text and Online sarge? We want to number close and set up a date so don't be afraid to go for these questions, particularly when IOI's present themselves.
It is with these parting words that I wish you all the best,
Yours Faithfully,
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